{"id":12691,"date":"2020-10-01T09:00:13","date_gmt":"2020-10-01T13:00:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/relationalimplicit.com\/?p=10666"},"modified":"2022-05-28T12:10:58","modified_gmt":"2022-05-28T16:10:58","slug":"allen-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/activepause.com\/allen-2\/","title":{"rendered":"David Allen: The implicit pressures that shape our clients"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>To be effective, therapy has to address the implicit pressures that shaped our clients and continue to shape them. This includes the implicit messages people derived from their upbringing (e.g. parent implicitly encouraging child to act out while explicitly not doing so). This also includes the social milieu which exerts implicit pressure for them to keep conforming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"video-responsive\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/433691156\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>David M. Allen, MD, is professor emeritus of psychiatry and former director of psychiatric residency training at The University of Tennessee Health Science Center in Memphis, TN. He has carried out research on personality disorders, is a psychotherapy theorist, and is the former associate editor of the <em>Journal of Psychotherapy Integration<\/em>. He is the author of &#8220;<em>Coping with Critical, Demanding, and Dysfunctional Parents: Powerful Strategies to Help Adult Children Maintain Boundaries and Stay Sane<\/em>&#8220;, &#8220;<em>How Dysfunctional Families Spur Mental Disorders<\/em>&#8221; and other books, as well as numerous journal articles and book chapters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n<div class=\"powerpress_player\" id=\"powerpress_player_6575\"><!--[if lt IE 9]><script>document.createElement('audio');<\/script><![endif]-->\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-12691-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/activepause.com\/zug\/podcast\/Allen-2020-10.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/activepause.com\/zug\/podcast\/Allen-2020-10.mp3\">https:\/\/activepause.com\/zug\/podcast\/Allen-2020-10.mp3<\/a><\/audio><\/div><p class=\"powerpress_links powerpress_links_mp3\" style=\"margin-bottom: 1px !important;\">Podcast: <a href=\"https:\/\/activepause.com\/zug\/podcast\/Allen-2020-10.mp3\" class=\"powerpress_link_d\" title=\"Download\" rel=\"nofollow\" download=\"Allen-2020-10.mp3\">Download<\/a> (20.1MB) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Published October 2020.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":12750,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[442],"tags":[503],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/activepause.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12691"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/activepause.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/activepause.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activepause.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activepause.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12691"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/activepause.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12691\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activepause.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12750"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/activepause.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12691"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activepause.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12691"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activepause.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12691"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}